V-Day Workout
Anonymous,
Bronx, New York
I know from a couple of your posts that you work out, so you're a good person to ask this question. I don't have a valentine this year, and I was going to spend it at the gym, but I feel like it will make me look alone and even a little desperate. My friends are saying the same thing, and now I think I should just stay home that day. I don't want to go to the gym and have people giving me pitying looks. What do you think? Would you go to the gym on valentine's day?
In all fairness you sent your question before I wrote my thoughts on V-Day, so you've probably read that response by now. I don't wanna sound harsh, but you kinda sound desperate and alone right now - even without the Valentine's Day question. If you're more concerned with people's perception of you rather than what you want to do, then you have a bigger problem.
I'll be in the gym on V-Day, like I am every other Wednesday...and I'm sure I'll see the same people I see there every other Wednesday. LOL. And if seeing someone at the gym on V-Day means that they're single and alone (instead of just anti-Valentines day) then I certainly I hope I see Dreamy Dread there (MAJOR update on that, BTW). Oh boy do I hope I see him on Wednesday! Besides, you don't get a fabulous body like mine worrying about what people think...hehe. Sorry I couldn't help myself.
What are your V-Day plans?
Email me your own dating/relationship question.


9 Comments:
That picture is a trip!! I can see it now: dude gets girl a fitness program for Vday...girl slaps dude for tryingto call her subliminally fat...LOL
i will definitely be in the gym on v-day...my programme calls for chest and triceps on a wednesday and that's what i will be doing....the thought that it would be valentines day didn't even cross my mind....
I'm going on a first date. I suggested McDonald's so we could sit longer without being pressured by the waitress to order more or leave. He didn't go for it.
WTF! This chick can't be serious!?...it will make her look desperate and lonely...WOW *smh*
Ladies, I am not a V-D celebrant, and I shall be in the gym, as per usual..tomorrow will be even better, cause it will be empty in there...I can stay on the elliptic machine as long as I want.
here's to not having a happy v-d...but to a great cardio, tricep/chest workout day!
Cheers!
@Madam, y'know...I never thought about it like that. But I can see how dude would be heading down a slippery slope...
@Kara, I'm with ya...I got an FDNY physical exam to pass, I can't be taking days off just because.
Des, somewhere out there some dude is frantically trying to meet you right now. A McDonald's date??? Girl, I know you're a student and all, but we have to work on that. LOL.
I know I'm late. But, did anyone tell the lady with the question that the only people who would know are people who are there as well. ;-)
Ok, you just made me feel so damn guilty.
It's past 11pm and I had planned on running around the park @ 10:00, now I feel so bad, just lying here reading your blog, while you're getting all toned at the gym.
Oh well, tomorrow's swimming.
Ok, you just made me feel so damn guilty.
It's past 11pm and I had planned on running around the park @ 10:00, now I feel so bad, just lying here reading your blog, while you're getting all toned at the gym.
Oh well, tomorrow's swimming.
yes u do get a body like that worrying about what other ppl think! lol
or u can anyway :D
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