Nonverbal Communication

There are some things that people do that are just complete turnoffs to the opposite sex. Now I can't speak for all women, but here are a few that really turns me off:

I've never been a fan of the wink. For me, it's one of the cheesiest things a dude could do. I can't even imagine being in a club and having a dude wink at me across the room. I dunno what I'd do.

The thumbs up is another one. Unless you're a pilot, or you work in a really loud factory where you have to give a signal to someone else, or you're 5, the thumbs up really doesn't have any place in a dating situation. And yes, that includes the thumbs-up-with-the-pointed-index-finger.

Now if you use the wink and the thumbs up together, then that's a different story. That tells a woman that you know it's corny, and you're doing it on purpose. Individually, it says "I really think this is cool; I have no idea that I'm being corny right now."

The licking of the lips. It's not sexy when LL does it and that's his trademark, so dudes, take that as your cue. The wanna-be-sexy-lip-lick is as played out as Cross Color jeans (I think I'ma rock a pair and bring 'em back though). If you're not about to eat, and you're not dehydrated, don't do it.

Hmm, I wonder if the neck roll is one for guys?