Better To Give Than To Receive?

Go figure...I complain that my blog doesn't have enough male input, then I get a question that I have no clue how to answer...but I polled some of my female friends, so now we're good to go...

Anonymous, 29
Ft. Lauderdale, FL

Let me get straight to the point: I'm 29 and I've never had a girl go down on me. The strange thing is that I don't have a problem doing it, and I get a thrill when I see a woman's reaction to it.

My girl wants to be the 1st but I'm not really comfortable with a woman going down on me. I feel kind of dirty like it's not something she should be doing. What if I like it and want to do it all the time and she doesn't want to do it? Or what if the first time I can't help help it and I have an accident in her mouth? Or what if I'm not clean enough or soemthing? Do u have any tips to make the first time easier?

So at first I didn't know how to answer this question, because every woman's taste is different. Some like sweaty balls (ugh!) or a natural funk, some prefer you to be freshly showered, some prefer hair, some want you to be bald down there, some are suckers, some are suckers and swallowers...there's so much variation in preference. The first step is to find out what your girlfriend prefers.

Now on to your other questions:

1) If your girlfriend knows what she's doing, you'll definitely like it, but I don't think it'll get that serious where you'll want it ALL the time. If you do end up being one of those people addicted to oral sex, I say you cross that bridge when you get to it.

2) Accidents are things that happen unexpectedly; I'll wager a guess that you know when you're about to have an orgasm, and can prepare appropriately before it happens in her mouth...because if she's just a sucker and that happens, there could be real problems. I mean problems like you can't imagine.

3) Depending on who you ask, you'll never be "clean enough" for oral sex, but showering before, or doing it in the shower should take care of that insecurity.

4) I don't know if there are tips per se, but think of what you'd want a girl to do before you give her oral sex and do the same things in preparation for your experience.

I hope your experience is a good one!

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